iEtiquette - getting connected - GWCC

Ever increasing in popularity, the iPod is becoming more and more a part of daily life in America. Its long lasting battery and ability to store thousands of songs makes it “no thing” to listen to your favorite songs for hours - wherever you go. But this technological gift to modern society in many ways takes away from our day-to-day, hour-to-hour social interaction with each other. Many people would rather listen to their iPod than converse with a new acquaintance on the train or plane… which is sometimes understandable. The very concept and design of earbuds is to isolate and direct sound into the ear. At the same time, we iPod users isolate ourselves by turning on the music and tuning out the people around us.

Technology has reached dizzying heights in our modern era, often seeking to invent better methods and devices of communication. On the flip side, devices such as cell phones, computers, iPhones, and Blackberries only create the illusion that we are truly connected to one another. Ultimately, with current technology, much can be accomplished and lost without ever meeting a person face to face.

The answer - while technology is truly a gift to modern society and a great tool for communication, sometimes it can diminish and cheapen relationships. The best relationships are built upon face to face, “in-person” encounters - and this applies to business, social, and family relationships. When establishing and nurturing future and present relationships, make a greater effort to become an actual person to the other, not just the voice coming through a cell phone.

Joan R. Stokely (jrs@thesocietyofdiplomacy.com) is the President of The Society of Diplomacy, Inc., a protocol and etiquette consulting firm. We offer extraordinary training programs for corporate professionals who desire greater success in their careers. Increase your knowledge of business protocol and etiquette, your corporate image, international intelligence and social skills by attending programs specifically designed for you.

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